It always happened whenever someone who's nice enough to plan something out for others, whether it's a trip or an outing (just coz the rest are too lazy to come out with a plan).. eventually his/her plans will receive many unwanted feedbacks or have it rejected by the relevant group of ppl.True? Face it. Most of us tend to be very indecisive and fickle minded at the same time. We hate to make decisions esp when you have to make one for the whole. Simple case eg. choosing a place to eat even when you do have a place in mind.. when asked for suggestions, 90% of us would rather not suggest anything and watch the clock ticks .and usually we always end up giving the most simple answers such as-" i dunno " , "up to you" or "anything la.." which all sum up to - "no answer". Agree?
Obviously there are also the odd ones who are nice and "brave" enough to come up with an idea or suggestion. But often it backfires. Whenever they come out with an idea/suggestion we tend to drown the "planner" with never ending questions and loads of personal opinions-either we disagree with the plan & that we don't buy it, or we think the plan isn't good enough and could be better..and yada yada.. Why didn't we have so many things to say when we're asked to come out with a plan? It is only when someone else suggested something that we start to debate on it. Ironic..? Unfortunately. We can be very unreasonable at times..
It's like having a moral hazard problem (=p) ..when everyone knows there'll be chances that their plans will be rejected , in the end we choose not to plan or give any suggestions at all.. what's the point of wasting our time planning when noone seems to appreciate it.. y can't all of us jus oblige whenever there's a plan and compromise with it. So stop being demanding..Save all the complaints and suggestive remarks and everyone will be better off that way. Don't be a KILL JOY :)
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
serenade
Within the past 2 weeks, a total of 14 days, i was sick for at least 10 days !! how interesting.. was pushing myself to recover fast so i could join the rest for the upcoming road trip to penang, hehe.. hard core holiday goer =) it makes you feel so much better to know that there are actually so many ppl who are concern about you & constantly updating themselves bout your current condition, just to make sure you're doin fine and be there whenever u need anything... come to think of it i feel so loved* heHEe.. anyway, reallie appreciate it, ppl, jus wanna say "Thanks!" to all of you -(u know who u are)-
Wanted a revamp, so i had a new hairdo last week..nothin too significant mayb except for the colour which is red=p yeap, dark red..not a colour that i would normally pick but fyi, red's normally the best tone for the fair skinned and my hairstylist actually suggested that colour so i decided to give it a go .. the result was fine and surprisingly i'm very much liking my new hair colour *smiLes*
I finally managed to go for my long awaited Mambo night last wed after much hesitations and bad plannings :P call me noob or outdated - that was actually my first time there, haha would be nicer if the age limit for guys isn't 25 n above so i won't have to see so many uncles dancing on the podium instead of hot hunks=p too bad we didnt take any pics that night.. what else for last week.. oh yea, Was at the Loft for a friend's birthday on Fri night- few of them were drunk, most of them were tipsy but overall everything was under control=p Mambo's still a better choice tho the price is towards the steeper side.. before that we had dinner at a restaurant in Federal Hotel.. the dinner was alil different - they even have female masseurs coming into our dining room to give neck/shoulder massages..n obviously..they charge:) received a bouquet of flowers that night itself .. thank u- it's very sweet of you=)
Out of songs to download?
Try Timbaland feat D.O.A & Keri Hilson- The Way I Are
or
Elliot Yamin- Wait for You
*For those of u who have no idea who Elliot Yamin is, he's one of the American idol finalists and he looks like this..
Wanted a revamp, so i had a new hairdo last week..nothin too significant mayb except for the colour which is red=p yeap, dark red..not a colour that i would normally pick but fyi, red's normally the best tone for the fair skinned and my hairstylist actually suggested that colour so i decided to give it a go .. the result was fine and surprisingly i'm very much liking my new hair colour *smiLes*
I finally managed to go for my long awaited Mambo night last wed after much hesitations and bad plannings :P call me noob or outdated - that was actually my first time there, haha would be nicer if the age limit for guys isn't 25 n above so i won't have to see so many uncles dancing on the podium instead of hot hunks=p too bad we didnt take any pics that night.. what else for last week.. oh yea, Was at the Loft for a friend's birthday on Fri night- few of them were drunk, most of them were tipsy but overall everything was under control=p Mambo's still a better choice tho the price is towards the steeper side.. before that we had dinner at a restaurant in Federal Hotel.. the dinner was alil different - they even have female masseurs coming into our dining room to give neck/shoulder massages..n obviously..they charge:) received a bouquet of flowers that night itself .. thank u- it's very sweet of you=)
Out of songs to download?
Try Timbaland feat D.O.A & Keri Hilson- The Way I Are
or
Elliot Yamin- Wait for You
*For those of u who have no idea who Elliot Yamin is, he's one of the American idol finalists and he looks like this..
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
nbtd
i can sense that my holidays are gonna be boring by mid of july
there'll soon be nothing fun that i can do:(
most of y'all will be returning to ur respective hometowns
sigh..
i just did my manicure all by myself!
it was--okay. not too bad. presentable.even comparable with the outside stores:P
So...manicures..anyone?
I charge.
what the hell am i crapping about...................
there'll soon be nothing fun that i can do:(
most of y'all will be returning to ur respective hometowns
sigh..
i just did my manicure all by myself!
it was--okay. not too bad. presentable.even comparable with the outside stores:P
So...manicures..anyone?
I charge.
what the hell am i crapping about...................
makes you wonder...
Ever feel like u have nothing else to ask for?
your current self is as good as it can be..
you thought you have almost everything you could've asked for..
your life's as beautiful as a dream..
like a female's pulchritude
even the unexpected becomes the reality..
but at the same time you're afraid that soon there'll be a day
when you start losing it all..
all that u do treasure and appreciate so much
and that all of a sudden you're back to square one
then you're left with nothing in the end.
it is never your fault..
this is just life.
they said in life you have to move forward..
you'll never know what's best for you if you never try
but a slight move could change everything around you..
question is..do u have the courage to change whatever you have now?
your current self is as good as it can be..
you thought you have almost everything you could've asked for..
your life's as beautiful as a dream..
like a female's pulchritude
even the unexpected becomes the reality..
but at the same time you're afraid that soon there'll be a day
when you start losing it all..
all that u do treasure and appreciate so much
and that all of a sudden you're back to square one
then you're left with nothing in the end.
it is never your fault..
this is just life.
they said in life you have to move forward..
you'll never know what's best for you if you never try
but a slight move could change everything around you..
question is..do u have the courage to change whatever you have now?
double zeros
Saturday, June 16, 2007
wish upon a shooting star..
Didn't realize that my blog is slowly turning into another photobucket site - mostly photos but nothing much written. Yikes..! all due to my laziness and time constraints.. yet even if i have the time to scribble somethin onto this page i ended up loading pictures-again. Just cuz a picture speaks a thousand words..
The first 7 days of my holiday were pretty packed with activities-imagine 2 clubbing sessions, lunches, dinners, mahjongs, yumchas, shopping and a trip with 9 other frens.. could hardly cope with the time n that i was forced to forgo a few other plans *phew* all n all, it's always better to be busy than having too much free time doin nothing +_+ just when i thought i'm filled with never ending plans for my long summer holiday-it stopped right away and my life's been dead boring ever since i came back from my trip..C'mon peeps, fill my days!!=p
So yea, i just got back from my trip to Lang Tengah Island..the place was superb! the clear blue sea, the soft white sands, the rustling sound of coconut trees, the calm breeze, the dazzling starry skies and of course, the lovely company..mesmerizing, tantalizing, alluring, captivating..i could use all sorts of beautiful words to describe it.. it would be a 10/10 if i hadn't fall sick throughout the entire trip=( minor illness , lil sore throat & fever due to heatiness ..blah*but nevertheless i did enjoy myself there ..sigh, am already missing the beach ~ *pics will b up soon*
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Have u ever gazed at the skies by the beach during the night..when all u c is nothing but clusters and clusters of twinkling stars all scattered around the skies.. a sight which u don't usually get to see in the cities-one word-beautiful ! We were spending our own sweet time by the beach jus staring at the glittery sky..and a few of us managed to see not one-but a few shooting stars! jealous! i only managed to catch a glimpse of one shooting star=p Lol,but good enough to make a wish la.. i guessed everyone did make their wishes that night.. let's jus hope all our wishes will come true one day =)
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The first 7 days of my holiday were pretty packed with activities-imagine 2 clubbing sessions, lunches, dinners, mahjongs, yumchas, shopping and a trip with 9 other frens.. could hardly cope with the time n that i was forced to forgo a few other plans *phew* all n all, it's always better to be busy than having too much free time doin nothing +_+ just when i thought i'm filled with never ending plans for my long summer holiday-it stopped right away and my life's been dead boring ever since i came back from my trip..C'mon peeps, fill my days!!=p
So yea, i just got back from my trip to Lang Tengah Island..the place was superb! the clear blue sea, the soft white sands, the rustling sound of coconut trees, the calm breeze, the dazzling starry skies and of course, the lovely company..mesmerizing, tantalizing, alluring, captivating..i could use all sorts of beautiful words to describe it.. it would be a 10/10 if i hadn't fall sick throughout the entire trip=( minor illness , lil sore throat & fever due to heatiness ..blah*but nevertheless i did enjoy myself there ..sigh, am already missing the beach ~ *pics will b up soon*
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Have u ever gazed at the skies by the beach during the night..when all u c is nothing but clusters and clusters of twinkling stars all scattered around the skies.. a sight which u don't usually get to see in the cities-one word-beautiful ! We were spending our own sweet time by the beach jus staring at the glittery sky..and a few of us managed to see not one-but a few shooting stars! jealous! i only managed to catch a glimpse of one shooting star=p Lol,but good enough to make a wish la.. i guessed everyone did make their wishes that night.. let's jus hope all our wishes will come true one day =)
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Friday, June 15, 2007
8 guys..2 girls and a beautiful island
LANG TENGAH ISLAND 10/6/07-13/6/07
PART ONE
the walking giant umbrella! :P the weather was just too hot but we wanted to take a stroll to the other resort so badly that we ended up having Charles to carry the giant umbrella to shelter all of us. Good idea tho=p
= when the sun sets.. .. ..=
"UOL"(university of London) with a smiley face all created by us at the beach after dinner using tealight candles
"UOL"(university of London) with a smiley face all created by us at the beach after dinner using tealight candles
exactly 10 of us!
from top left (clockwise) Noah, Win fei, Charles, WengFoong, Ernest , Pw, Me, Joe, Gary and Alex
the Volleyball session with a few Singaporean uncles
Last day of the trip
from top left (clockwise) Noah, Win fei, Charles, WengFoong, Ernest , Pw, Me, Joe, Gary and Alex
the Volleyball session with a few Singaporean uncles
Last day of the trip
chillout @ changkat
Thursday, June 14, 2007
busy bee
holiday's here !!
++ Sorry for the lack of updates ++
++ Loads of pics will be up soon.. stay tuned... =) ++
++ Sorry for the lack of updates ++
++ Loads of pics will be up soon.. stay tuned... =) ++
Friday, June 1, 2007
when everything in life seems blunt...
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- Photos taken on Jc's 22nd birthday @ Cafe Citron , Bangsar
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++ Yiing & YY- the fun couple who managed to have their food served first among all of us who were starving :p++
++ "Why is Batman slower than Spiderman & Superman?"++
++ Yy:: "Batman. Because he glides."++
++ " ... (^_^") " ++
++ Yy:: "Batman. Because he glides."++
++ " ... (^_^") " ++
++ Jc & her Birthday cake ++
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