very typical malaysians..

It always happened whenever someone who's nice enough to plan something out for others, whether it's a trip or an outing (just coz the rest are too lazy to come out with a plan).. eventually his/her plans will receive many unwanted feedbacks or have it rejected by the relevant group of ppl.True? Face it. Most of us tend to be very indecisive and fickle minded at the same time. We hate to make decisions esp when you have to make one for the whole. Simple case eg. choosing a place to eat even when you do have a place in mind.. when asked for suggestions, 90% of us would rather not suggest anything and watch the clock ticks .and usually we always end up giving the most simple answers such as-" i dunno " , "up to you" or "anything la.." which all sum up to - "no answer". Agree?

Obviously there are also the odd ones who are nice and "brave" enough to come up with an idea or suggestion. But often it backfires. Whenever they come out with an idea/suggestion we tend to drown the "planner" with never ending questions and loads of personal opinions-either we disagree with the plan & that we don't buy it, or we think the plan isn't good enough and could be better..and yada yada.. Why didn't we have so many things to say when we're asked to come out with a plan? It is only when someone else suggested something that we start to debate on it. Ironic..? Unfortunately. We can be very unreasonable at times..

It's like having a moral hazard problem (=p) ..when everyone knows there'll be chances that their plans will be rejected , in the end we choose not to plan or give any suggestions at all.. what's the point of wasting our time planning when noone seems to appreciate it.. y can't all of us jus oblige whenever there's a plan and compromise with it. So stop being demanding..Save all the complaints and suggestive remarks and everyone will be better off that way. Don't be a KILL JOY :)