not jus another ordinary day..

What do you think and what comes to your mind when i mention :
Birthdays.. Valentines.. Anniversaries..etc etc?
Are those days significant,or at least, somewhat special to u?
For me, i do put great importance to these days.. whether it's my birthday or someone else's, i consider it special and worth celebrating for. It doesn't have to be a big and lavish celebration, maybe jus a mini one will do. Afterall, what's so hard about goin out n have lunch/dinner together for just a day anyway??

I've known and observed many friends and ppl around me.Some find the occasions unnecessary, some don't find it of any importance at all, some think the days are meaningless, some couldn't care less about it, some find the days as typical as the other rest of the days,some don't even bother celebrating 'em and only a few think the days are different than others and worth giving their attention to.Seriously, I've heard of many ppl who couldn't even remember their family members' bday, what more their friends'..

And what about those couples in love and those currently in steady r/ships?How many of you actually remember your anniversary date?the first place u met each other?or your first date with him/her ?Most girls remember these so called minor details whilst most of the guys can't even answer maybe, 2/3 of the questions asked.I realized many couples, esp those already in years of r/ship, no longer spending their quality time with each other and celebrating on occasions eg. their anniversaries and Valentines'.I never blieve a r/ship can last if every single thing they do is nothing but a routine itself.At times something fresh and new should be input into the r/ship in order to keep it lively.Y wanna make a r/ship so boring when u can actually spark things up? I've known of a few long-time couples who didn't even bother givin each other a hug, goin out for dinner or even, say the ultimate 3 words to their loved ones on their birthdays,not to mention on Valentines'.Dead.Lifeless.Boring.When asked "why not",the most common answer u get from them is "Love from the heart not in terms of material things.We shouldn't just put extra love to the special someone on one particular day-but everyday instead.So there's really nothing much to celebrate about" Sounds true but 90% of them are jus saying it as an excuse and in reality, they never do it.

Everybody is different in their own ways. What's wrong with having the least, one "me" day out of the 365 days of the yr's calender..?All of us deserve to have that 'special' day..be it Valentines' birthdays ..etc etc. I believe everyone wants to feel special and loved by many.Show it, remember there's never too much to offer..Put a smile on someone on these days ..u might just make their day=)

...always the thought that counts

it's the people who matters..not the gift itself

sorry joe..i know i still owe u a post of 1000 words long:P wud like to thank you for everything,for being such a nice friend and company, to the unforgettable 'mothers' day' celebration (hehe..)

thanks for the gift and those lovely card toos*hugss* Part of the collection of cards.been keeping them for years, some are recent ones.My priceless treasure-i'll never trade any of those for anything! I appreciate each and every single one of 'em.Love 'em all*