adverse chemistry

I don't know if it's some kinda inheritance that i find some ppl can be so unreasonable at times.. or maybe the main reason is that we have conflicting point of views towards certain things. I can never agree to at least 80% of what she says...or does. It doesn't really bother me much at first, but sometimes whatever she does reallie gets into my nerves.. we've so different form of perceptions and thinkings it prevent us from one step closer to reach a consensus point.Exactly this hard to communicate with each other. Is it my problem? if it is, how come i'm not the only one who feels the same way?

Trust me, It's always her who started off a silly argument...and when u try to tell her, pretty nicely, that she's wrong in some ways, eventually she always have something to counter argue with u.Or often, whenever u try to ask/clarify something with her, eventually she'll take your words as a threat or something which is against her. In the end, she answers u back in a rude manner. wth??! yes, there is someone like that in this world. Again, there are things that u can't tolerate..but i'm a peace lover. i don't create war=p

Obviously in cases like this, one has to compromise.but she's taking it for granted.And as day passes she's getting more and more aggresive and crossing over the limits.. n u know u dear her so much sometimes u don't bother arguing with her. I reached to a point where i'm alredi feeling so lazy n tired of talking to her. Most of the time i rather not speak to her. Maybe she feels intimidated everytime, as how she portrays it..or maybe she feels insecure about herself, hence, the strong sense of self defense. whatever it is....

Her attitude's so "unique" and extraordinary that i guess not many of us can take it. She seems fine elsewhere but a 360° change when she's with me n blablabla. She can possibly take and use whatever we own but the latter's different when it comes to hers. Act of selfishness?Maybe..Even a minor case Somehow she'll have her own logics as to why she deserves using it more than i do. sometimes her reasons are acceptable and i wouldnt mind at all, but sometimes, pure craps, she can even relate it to my break ups. *swt kau kau* so many question markss ..all without answers. Don't ask me. Me n the other have been trying to figure out why is she so different from us since years ago but to no avail.

maybe i just shouldn't dwell on something which is so impossible to solve...yea, relationships among humans are that difficult to handle..sigh

p/s: i'm not talking about my mom, ok?:P