Burnin'

Climate has changed. Temperature risen. Global warming. We need air conds so badly, esp in this hot hot country.. Malaysia boleh!=p freakin' hot nowadays.. *sigh*

Call me paranoid. But i've heard alot bout ppl breaking up recently . Is there such thing as the break up season? hehe ..My grandma told me and I've read somewhere that ppl who are born in the year of ox will have lots of difficulties and choices in terms of their love lives this year. I find it quite true..  And i'm talking about those in serious relationships. duration of years.. 3..4...even 8 yrs or r/ships.. now it's gone. i was shocked to hear bout it. u thought they were such a lovely couple all along and they might jus get married in the future..next thing u know, they broke up. I realised most ppl don't tell when problems arised in r/ships, nor do they show it.. hence, we as the outsiders never know what's goin on behind all that expressions.. until they finally come up with a conclusion.. n then the story unfolds.. Some ppl just basically hold on to a r/ship just for the sake of being with each other for a long period of time, not because they reallie like each other. Eventually after yrs of being together, they get too used of having each other that it became a routine.. in the end, they're pratically stuck in this so-called 'commitment' and nvr willing to get out of the box to c the outside world .. i've seen people who are in such situations but u knoe u'll never have the right to tell them what to do because the choice is theirs.. i guess there are reallie no rights or wrongs in relationships...
Was talking to a fren in coll today .. i could understand what he's going thru now ..i've been through similar situations, certainly wasn't easy to accept the fact..i guess everyone has their own mourning season.. I've learned that when u've passed that stage & finally have the courage to let it go.. you're one whole self again. Obviously, the memories will still remain in u, perhaps maybe a permanent scar in ur heart .. and no matter how much u wanted to forget about it, they just don't disappear... 
It's never easy to love someone, but to forget someone u love..it's harder
So y not we choose not to forget that someone & all that bittersweet memories ? but choose not to love him/her instead...?  it seems so easy for me to say .. but to do it, its much harder than i tot..